Many criticisms of Paganism arise from its supposed “immorality.” It’s undeniable, for instance, that Pagans usually hold a much different set of attitudes about sexuality than Christians. But different is not always wrong. Sexuality for Pagans is not so hedged about with restrictions. As John Michael Greer points out in his book A World Full of Gods, “If lovemaking takes place, according to traditional Christian and Jewish moral theory, the act is acceptable only if it meets a long list of criteria: there must be only two people involved; one must be male and the other female; they must be legally married to each other; they must limit their erotic play to activities that have some chance of producing pregnancy; they must not stimulate each other with anything other than certain authorized portions of their bodies; ritual and calendar taboos must be observed, and so on” (146). But if two lovers are not breaking vows they have made to others, if they love in mutually agreed ways, if their lovemaking is safe and responsible, it’s difficult for most Pagans to see where any problem lies. Christians, it is true, might contend that God demands more of us than this. But this is a monotheist demand that polytheists simply see no reason to accept. Philosopher John Harris observes, “For a moral judgment to be respectable it must have something to say about just why a supposed wrong action is wrongful. If it fails to meet this test it is a preference and not a moral judgment at all” (Wonderwoman and Superman, 42). A Pagan could just as easily claim that his gods demand a different sexual ethics. Without any external basis for judgment, we simply have a matter of personal preference.
Greer continues in a broader discussion of Pagan morality. He acknowledges that a Pagan and specifically polytheist theology may not conveniently deliver “an unquestionable basis for moral decisions, to be sure. This has been a theme of monotheist criticism for quite some time, from Kierkegaard through Niebuhr to some of the more thoughtful defenders of monotheist religion nowadays. They argue that polytheism is a fabric of compromises woven of the world of ordinary experience, and is therefore morally inadequate. Monotheism, by contrast, is superior because it rejects compromise and tears through the fabric of everyday life, replacing it with the total submission of the soul to the demands of a transcendent Other.
Yet this same argument works at least as well in the other direction. A case for monotheism on this basis comes dangerously close to a justification of fanaticism and monomania: the viewpoint of the terrorist, the crusader, and the inquisitor, who claim that ordinary human feelings such as compassion for the innocent must be swept aside for the sake of absolute devotion to some higher principle. A more humane approach weighs all the moral factors in a situation, and finds the best available balance among them.
This approach, as monotheist criticism suggests, provides no certain basis for any given decision. Still, this is not necessarily a weakness, just as the conviction that one possesses an absolutely sure standard of morality is not necessarily a good thing. The contrary realization, that each moral decision is simply an attempt to do the best that can be done in the presence of conflicting factors, leads to humility in judgment, and thus to humanity in action” (154-155).
Aspirations toward a single monotheist morality fail to ease the same, often complex human choices that Pagans also face. But when guided by love and humility, most of our decisions will be good ones. Who among any of us has accomplished more? Isn’t it a kind of arrogance itself to presume that all our decisions will or can be perfect? That is the kind of hubris the gods have punished repeatedly in some of the oldest stories that come down to us. When we are “correct,” we literally cannot hear advice, accept reproof, or learn and grow. Better, I assert, that we present our deeds and feelings as offerings to the gods, asking them to hallow the best of them and participate with us in the shaping of our lives.